Monday, April 26, 2010

Small Town Charm...Story Two

(The second story of six remaining from our trip south for Easter Break)


In spite of what those in big cities, or those from important cities, such as Washington, D.C., New York City, or Los Angeles and Chicago think, most of America is still made up of people from small towns. There is so much to treasure about a small town, especially these days. Any small town that can make it, that has a working Main Street, with well-stocked shops and restaurants and cash registers that ring, that small town is to be commended.


I visited one small town like that with Jamie during our time with her there earlier this month. It's not terribly far from her town, and this one has lots of old storefronts, three blocks or more of them. They're all very well kept, and have these sidewalks with canopies, which in itself is charming.

(Hi Jamie! She was far ahead of her photo-snapping mom--on a mission, trying to find the right dresser for the baby's room! She found it!)


There are no cookie cutter door fronts here, no sleek, modern windows all in a row. Each shop has their own look, their own kind of charm, in loads. I give them credit because it can't be easy to keep this town looking this way when it would be so much easier to go the way of "low maintenance".

But here old is celebrated, and there are plenty who (like us!) appreciate that. Walking the main street, traffic is noticeably heavy, it's not far off the main interstate, there are plenty of places to go, most of which take everyone straight through downtown. Because of that heavy traffic, the shop owners are rewarded, especially if the light turns red, and drivers have time to let their eyes wander and look at all that's in the antique shop and thrift store windows!



You hear the sound of traffic, changing with the lights, and many times you'll hear the loud train heading through...blowing its whistle loudly and rumbling the sidewalk you stand on.

For many, it would be an immediate flashback in your mind of holding mom's hand while shopping in your own little Midwestern hometown, decades ago.

All of it greets and welcomes you with open arms, to stay awhile, to spend some time browsing or eating, or if you're like me, just looking and ooh-ing and ahh-ing and spending a few dollars.




This little display was in an outdoor eating area at a little restaurant in town, as charming as can be. I just wanted to get that old kitchen cupboard with the tin counter top...load it up and take it home!






This shop was closed at the time, but how I wanted to grab three of these old Coke crates, for TEN DOLLARS?!!
(Sorry, didn't mean to shout, but what a bargain!)



What small town southern scene would be right without the requisite number of rocking chairs: it's indicative of the pace of the south, laid back, there's all the time in the world!


A broader view of Main Street.



And the side street on which the Depot and the Freight House stand...
(Ya think I could hot wire that old Ford truck and bring it home?!)


Pretty as a picture.



Tomorrow I'll show you scenes from Jamie's baby shower, held in the Freight House, next door to this beautiful old Train Depot, a centerpiece in this treasure of a town!

One of the shop owners told us her husband is a train engineer for CSX and that when he comes through town, he has a special combination when he blows the whistle, just so she knows it's him! I thought that was so sweet!



If you can go to visit the deep south in the spring, you certainly will not regret it, the world is in bloom, and the weather mild: the feel of the gentle days heart-breakingly soft, and for this color-starved girl from the cold and gray Midwest, it was a balm to the soul!

Sunday, April 25, 2010

SCENIC SUNDAYS: Lilac Time!




These photos are from last year, but it's almost time...the lilac bush is full of buds waiting to burst out of their protective coverings!

Lilacs always make me think of Jamie, these were her favorites, and I thought she'd enjoy these images of the Heaven-sent blooms today.

Happy Sunday, all!


PS: For those of you who don't know, there's a story behind our lilac bush. It's planted on the fence row at our old farmhouse. We were asked by a member of the original family that built this old house not to ever move or remove the lilac bush. Farmer Owen's twin sons, who were stillborn are buried under the lilac bush. So in the spring, I always remember their sister Bernice's request and remember the sons their mother never got to know.

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Scenes from a Retro Housewife Bridal Shower: A Vintage Garden Tea Party





Spring,
a time of greening grass,
sunshine and blue skies,
buds on trees...
and brides!


Last weekend was the bridal shower of my niece, Melissa, given by her mom's four sisters: Brenda, me, Mary and Anne. Melissa's mom helped out a ton, and several of her mom's friends, Denise and Diane and I'm sure many others.

It was a work of love, for a beautiful bride-to-be and thanks to the skills of many, it turned out very pretty, picture perfect in fact!

In no small part, it was gorgeous due to the fact that Melissa's mom is a florist and party decorator extraordinaire, has been for about thirty years. And, grandma had a huge collection of vintage hats, purses, and gloves. What fun it was to decorate using them.

(click any photo in this post to enlarge)


To welcome guests, my sister put this photo frame together and it stood just inside the door. A gal named Melissa (a friend of the bride) decorated it with a nosegay Pam (bride's mom) had made and a vintage hat on the top right corner with a "veil" underneath it.

In the frame are photos from a session by the bride's friend and bridesmaid, Leah for Melissa's invitations, taken with Grandma's vintage hats and gloves.



The bride's mom also made this cake, decorated with fresh mini roses, perfectly matching the vintage wedding shower card I brought (and she hadn't seen!).
She placed the cake on a lacy milk glass pedestal cake plate.



The cake table was decorated with pieces of china from the bride's great great grandmother--azalea pattern! It is placed on a vintage piece of linen that belongs to Pam.

It's embroidered with an umbrella and little flowers...perfect for a springtime bridal shower. On the piece are two more of my vintage bridal shower cards or gift tags...part of a Ziploc bag full of them purchased at a garage sale last summer for twenty-five cents.




Pam brought these little parasols to decorate with and placed them on the dessert tables.





All the tables were decorated with vintage milk glass vases full of take-with bouquets, which were door prizes for guests to take home with them when they left. We drew names for all of them.


My mom sent along a box of vintage hats, purses, and gloves and the groupings were all unique and beautiful, with strings of pearls scattered around. I tried to take photos of each grouping so you can feast your eyes on these gorgeous beauties. What glamor.





Aren't the gloves with seeded pearls gorgeous? And the lilac headband hat...!



I love the sassy little straw hat in the top corner here, reminds me of something in the movie "The Magic Of Ordinary Days", a Hallmark movie that was a story told from the 1940's.
The beaded purse on the left was made by my mom.



Can you just hear that purse snapping shut? As kids, all us girls loved that sound...





A table full of blue...






This hat is decorated with stunning replicas of apple blossoms. Still in great condition, my mom said she thought it was from the 1960's, as she wore one that Easter that was almost identical.




All the flowers were done by my talented sister, and were gorgeous, don't you think?



A lovely beaded handbag.






Ahh...aqua!



The cup and saucer here are part of a set of china that belonged to the bride's grandmother, a family heirloom!





The bride's mom brought all the tea cup sets to use for nuts and mints. They're just gorgeous to look at!



And this...oh. My.





Aqua again!




This rosy pink confection is a new hat, one my mom brought home from her trip to England recently (my youngest brother is there with his wife). All the ladies still wear hats to church services in England so they're still easy to find in stores.





How perfectly smashing this black number with the brooch is!







This was the display on the bridal party's table.

















And now...the GOOD FOOD!



My sister Mary put together this beautiful Olive Garden salad....easy to make, beautiful to look at, and delicious too!

Here's all you do:
Toss romaine with tomato wedges, red onion rings, black olives, hot pepper slices,
with croutons and fresh Parmesan cheese for the topping.

This is how you replicate Olive Garden's delicious dressing for it:
Use Italian dressing and use a whisk to mix it with real mayo (to get the cloudiness) and a bit of sugar to take the sour off the Italian dressing. HEAVENLY!


There were delicious chicken salad sandwiches mixed up by Pam, and I want the recipe, I heard her say it called for red and yellow pepper for crunch and a Vidalia onion dressing was all that was needed for the dressing, they were light and crunchy and just right.




Two kinds of soups: homemade chicken noodle and baked potato with toppings of cheddar cheese, green onion, and bacon bits. YUM!




All of us girls and our mom brought our dessert sets...most gleaned from thrift stores. It works out great because you use the cups for the hot soup!



Diane's fruit salad and fruit pizza on the dessert table...yummy and beautiful!


We used vintage scrabble letters for fun and for labeling the food items.




The punch was delicious: one each of two liter Sprite and 7up and one can of frozen fruit punch by Minute Maid.




We had Texas chocolate and peanut butter sheet cakes, coconut and banana cake to serve.






Yumm....let's dig in!




From left to right, my sister Brenda, the groom's mother, the bride's mom who is my sister, Pam, her daughter Amy who will be a bridesmaid, the bride-to-be, Melissa, the maid of honor, Stephanie is also the bride's sister, the bridesmaid Leah, and then in front is one of the flower girls.



Opening a gigantic pile of gifts. She got a lot of great stuff for their apartment and I even saw a couple aprons!


And afterward, while we cleaned up, there was some hat modeling going on...



Stephanie and Leah.
(Leah's the talented one who took the photos for the shower invitation.)




The bridal party.



Some people just look so cute in hats! This is my niece, Stephanie.

All of my nieces loved to play "dress up" at grandma's house with her hats and gloves and purses and collection of old dresses.





And...the bride, Melissa! So cute, loved her dress for that day!



And, we couldn't leave the shower without a cute McKenzie shot!
(She's my great niece! Cute as a button and sassy, too!)

We sure all wish Melissa and Benjamin the best of luck in their new marriage and their new home!